Throughout my life, on several occasions, I have encountered problems that, no matter how hard I tried, I couldn’t overcome…
In those cases, and even though it was very, very difficult, I understood and admitted that I was part of the “problem” and that it was necessary to work on me before I could change the situation.
As I wrote a few weeks ago in “You have 2 problems“, admitting the problem is always difficult, but admitting that you are the problem (or part of it) is even more difficult.
👇 Tip of the Day 👇
- When you are unable to solve a problem, ask yourself what you need to change in order to be able to do so.
Sometimes, the “problem” is you…
And there is nothing wrong with that.
The problem may be that you haven’t done enough research on the subject, that you haven’t learned enough.
The problem may also be that you haven’t respected or valued yourself…
That you have been afraid to do or say something.
The problem may be that you have given up too quickly or overstayed your welcome, that your priorities have not been right, or many other things.
Identify what you need to change, and do it.
And there is nothing wrong with that.
The problem may be that you haven’t done enough research on the subject, that you haven’t learned enough.
The problem may also be that you haven’t respected or valued yourself…
That you have been afraid to do or say something.
The problem may be that you have given up too quickly or overstayed your welcome, that your priorities have not been right, or many other things.
Identify what you need to change, and do it.
