please listen…
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Throughout these years that I have been supporting and assisting the processes of many people, I have realized that they often want (and need) to tell their problems to their closest and most trusted group, but in many occasions they end up not doing so for fear of being judged.
👇 Reminder of the day 👇
- If someone tells you a problem, listen to him or her.
Many times people just need to vent, they are not looking for a solution, they just want someone to listen to them and feel supported. Provide them with a safe space…
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If you are asked for advice, try to give it with compassion and without judging the person. Acknowledge the effort, bravery and vulnerability involved in opening up to you, and if you don’t know what to say or how to be supportive, just say that, the truth, but please let him know you are there to listen and be supportive.